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Think about summer visits with the kids now

On Behalf of | May 15, 2020 | Visitation

Living in a different geographical area from your children is difficult, but you’ll likely look forward to the time that you do get to spend in person with them. Now that the summer is almost here, it’s time to start thinking about the upcoming visit with them.

One of the most important things you can do right now is contact your ex to find out what types of things your child enjoys now. You may have some ideas, but this conversation can also include things like special bedtime routines for younger children or specific struggles the older children are having. Your goal is to try to make it easier for your children to adjust to life at your home for the summer.

Another thing that you need to discuss with your ex is the availability of communication while the kids are with you. Ideally, they will be free to contact the other parent whenever they want. There are times when it might be necessary to set limits, such as if time zones are a factor. Having these guidelines set ahead of time can make things easier for everyone.

Once your children are with you, remember that they will need time to adjust to life at your house. Try to help them as they sort through the emotions that come with leaving the other parent. While you do still need to be a parent, now is the time that you have to make quality memories with your children, so make the best of the situation. Remember that you do need to abide by the rules of the parenting plan while the kids are with you.

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